You flirted and said things to other men that you didn't say to him. You didn't just have sex with them, you lied and deceived him to do it. You didn't just date other men, you had sex with them. I haven't read Malcom's thread but I think this holds true of many BS. You.įirst, I think you need to try the best you can to put yourself in his shoes. Why, because he wasn't willing to respect boundaries and that's not a path I am willing to walk on. But I am a woman that has been cheated on, and I ended the relationship with a major sense of urgency. I can't speak for your husband, I'm not a man that has been cheated on. If nothing else your children, need to see you as a woman and mother that fills them with pride and love for being a part of you. ![]() Your happiness has to come from you and living in your integrity. You will not find true peace and happiness attached to a hard-on. You cannot be happy living a shame-based existence and looking for your escape with other people. Do you love yourself? Like really and truly just adore YOU? My suspicion is that you don't and that sucks for you and anyone else that loves you. I don't blame you, but why stay married if it's preventing you from being honorable? But after reading your postings I sense a lot of shame and bewilderment? It's almost as if you enjoy the affair, but not the fallout from getting caught. That was six years ago, and mi still shame.I'm not attempting to put you on the defensive in any way. Security wouldn't let her in, so she hired a town crier, and one Saturday morning drove by the complex and announced all her and my husband's business for the whole community to hear. The girl got pregnant, he hid her for seven months, she got tired of hiding, and came to our apartment complex several times. So, along with being a cheater, he was a predator, and as a church man, I also had to deal with the condemnation from the church community, some of whom believed that it wasn't just his sin, but our whole family's sin. It was so embarrassing because he tried revenge porn on this young girl, who was barely out of her teens. My ex-husband was not only cheating, which is bad enough, but when the girl ended it, he started stalking her, and even ended up on the news. All of us at the salon think both he, and the women, are gross. He thinks what he's doing looks good, but he doesn't know that on other days, one of the girls gets dropped off by another man to pay for the stuff that he complains is too expensive. ![]() Also, he just pays for the basics, and always complains that he can't afford certain packages. The funny thing is, he is not even attractive or anything, and I'm sure they all know he's married, but I'm not sure if the girlfriends know about each other. We're sure that one is the wife - the older woman - and there are three others. I'm in the beauty industry, and this man takes all his women to the salon, on separate days, to get services done. Turns out my fiancé was entertaining another woman at our house so much that security thought she was the wife and I was a visitor. I was outside a good 30 minutes, providing documentation that I was a resident. She insisted that the 'wife' for my house number was a larger woman, who drove a white SUV, too, and even called her boss to verify that I lived there. She looked puzzled, then she congratulated me on losing weight, and I told her I hadn't. Anyway, there was this new girl, and one day, while I was at the gate, I asked her about a package I was expecting to be delivered. So they go by licence plates or car type. ![]() So they never really know our names or faces or get to know much about us because they're always being rotated. I live in a gated complex, and the security company we have always rotates guards. What is the most outrageous experience you've had with cheating? THERE'S cheating, and then there's the unbelievably outrageous stuff that ordinarily you'd think only happened in movies, in fiction, until you witness it for yourself.
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